Hi,
Found the best remote to raspbmc, WD TV remote.
Small and easy, even grandmothers can use it now.
Full keyboard:
Space = Pause/Play
X = Stop
F = Fastforward
R = Rewind
L = Next Subtitle ( Option-button)
S = Power
ESC = Home
Backspace = Back
Enter = Enter
Arrows (keyboard) = Like arrows on the remote
C = Eject (contextual menu, for safely remove usb device)
CloseSquareBracket = Prev (Previous Chapter)
OpenSquareBracket = Next (Next Chapter)
(have to modify keyboard.xml in raspbmc, add "SkipNext" and "SkipPrevious" between the squarebrackets instead of "BigStepForward" and "BigStepBack".
Q = Search (Next Audio Track)
(have to modify keyboard.xml in raspbmc, add a new line with "<q>AudioNextLanguage</q>" under FullScreenVideo keyboard)
With the arrows, you can even step forward/backward +-30sec and +-10min.
Thanks in advance